BFTD Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 42 minutes ago, Hoose Rice said: Thanks guys, left the hospital, one day at a time eh. It's hard when you've given everything to something that's failed and even my birthday this week the childrens mum couldn't muster up a birthday card. Oh, you'll get used to that. I doubt my son even knows when I was born. As far as the kids go, it doesn't mean they don't care. I think most kids think of birthdays as something that happens to them, rather than adults. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoose Rice Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 23 minutes ago, johnnydun said: Looking forward is the only way mate, don't dwell on the could've and should've. And as for thinking you let the people down who care about you, I think you have just answered that yourself. Ask yourself, if someone you cared about was in your current position, how would you see it? That they let you down, or you want to help them get better? Stay strong brother. Mate, in all honesty and I swear it on my children I would have cards made by the kids, flowers on the table to see a present or ten wrapped up so she can share that moment with the kids opening them. I didn't get so much as a card, 4 days after going into a mental ward in hospital and when I got upset about it I was told I'm manipulative, lying to suit my agenda (what agenda, I tried to die ffs) and she was busy and I was an inpatient so it didn't matter. 8 years, three children and I mean nothing to her apart from her somehow seeing me as an enemy when all I tried for the last 18 tiresome months was to please her enough to try get my family back. I'm being honest it's the end for me and it's scary but going forward my head is more clear than it's been for years. I don't wish to argue upset or hurt the kids mum I just don't want her as part of my life as humanly possible and I'll be there for my children to teach them, when I can being bitter and twisted like her because she didn't know her own dad isn't the way to live life and I pray to god they are kind and thoughtful as much as my parents are. 16 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoose Rice Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 1 minute ago, BFTD said: Oh, you'll get used to that. I doubt my son even knows when I was born. As far as the kids go, it doesn't mean they don't care. I think most kids think of birthdays as something that happens to them, rather than adults. As true as it is, my daughter especially would have loved to make her daddy a birthday card and my little boy will be wondering what's happened that dad isn't even on the phone today. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 Just now, Hoose Rice said: As true as it is, my daughter especially would have loved to make her daddy a birthday card and my little boy will be wondering what's happened that dad isn't even on the phone today. It reads as though things are falling apart for you a bit as far your family goes; I've been there, and I've known people who've been in the same boat. Just do your best for your kids and forget about what you aren't able to do anymore; things that are without your control. If you can keep doing the right thing and show that you love them, they'll see it over time. It doesn't help with the pain in the short term, but you can end up in a better place in the long run. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post DA Baracus Posted June 3, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 3, 2022 (edited) 1 hour ago, Hoose Rice said: Mate, in all honesty and I swear it on my children I would have cards made by the kids, flowers on the table to see a present or ten wrapped up so she can share that moment with the kids opening them. I didn't get so much as a card, 4 days after going into a mental ward in hospital and when I got upset about it I was told I'm manipulative, lying to suit my agenda (what agenda, I tried to die ffs) and she was busy and I was an inpatient so it didn't matter. 8 years, three children and I mean nothing to her apart from her somehow seeing me as an enemy when all I tried for the last 18 tiresome months was to please her enough to try get my family back. I'm being honest it's the end for me and it's scary but going forward my head is more clear than it's been for years. I don't wish to argue upset or hurt the kids mum I just don't want her as part of my life as humanly possible and I'll be there for my children to teach them, when I can being bitter and twisted like her because she didn't know her own dad isn't the way to live life and I pray to god they are kind and thoughtful as much as my parents are. My man, sounds like a shite situation. Sadly too common where relationships break down and some parties can be vindictive or otherwise indifferent, even if not on purpose as such (although definitely on purpose in some cases). A hurtful situation but you'll move on, as hard as it may be. Also, I've made you a birthday card on MS Paint: P.S. You are indeed worth your room on this earth Edited June 3, 2022 by DA Baracus 79 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sophia Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 50 minutes ago, Hoose Rice said: As true as it is, my daughter especially would have loved to make her daddy a birthday card and my little boy will be wondering what's happened that dad isn't even on the phone today. You have to accept that there are people out there, yes, even people we have loved, that do things that are mean. We, you, have no control over that and what we can't control, we shouldn't spare time or energy on. It's really tough just now but there will be gifts of love you will share in the future. This is a gem that speaks of letting go and the real beauty is that there are tunes to replace what has drifted into the ether 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
House Bartender Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 Never been that low. But I do know that for very relegation in life there's a 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cosmic Joe Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 May the Chief put sunshine on your Leith pal. It's obviously tough going just now, but try to believe that tomorrow will be a better day. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy Dufresne Posted June 3, 2022 Author Share Posted June 3, 2022 Hoose Rice I don't have pm messages enabled but just so glad you are OK,I was worried sick about you and just had to something and glad Police Scotland were able to help you. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thistle_do_nicely Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 On 26/05/2022 at 21:53, Inanimate Carbon Rod said: Its very important that people know that IP addresses can be traced to service providers sweatingprinceandrew.jpg.gif.exe 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moses1924 Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 All the best @Hoose Ricesounds like your going through a hard time with your family situation but however it works out your children would rather have you around, post on here any time, as others have said there is some ammount of nonsense posted but when it comes to the important stuff folk are here for you, here's airdrie and hibs player jim black wishing you happy birthday 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RH33 Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 Horse rice, been where you are and drop me pm anytime. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velo army Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 1 hour ago, RH33 said: Horse rice, been where you are and drop me pm anytime. A bacchanalian orgy might be just the thing to lift his spirits tbf. 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greendot Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 6 hours ago, RH33 said: Horse rice, been where you are and drop me pm anytime. Sounds like the next food scandal to hit the supermarkets 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacksgranda Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 14 hours ago, Hoose Rice said: Thanks guys, left the hospital, one day at a time eh. It's hard when you've given everything to something that's failed and even my birthday this week the childrens mum couldn't muster up a birthday card. You live and learn I suppose and it's only forward from now on. Thank you again everyone and when it's not so overwhelming I'll reply to everyone that was in touch. It's just a bit tough at the moment being back home and feeling I let down people who care so much for me. f**k the Hearts Keep on keeping on 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Moonster Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 I hadn't seen anything of this before now but I'm sitting here reading this nearly greetin'. What a good bunch of c***s you all are, and all the best Hoose Rice, take it easy pal. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moomintroll Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 15 hours ago, Hoose Rice said: Thanks guys, left the hospital, one day at a time eh. It's hard when you've given everything to something that's failed and even my birthday this week the childrens mum couldn't muster up a birthday card. You live and learn I suppose and it's only forward from now on. Thank you again everyone and when it's not so overwhelming I'll reply to everyone that was in touch. It's just a bit tough at the moment being back home and feeling I let down people who care so much for me. f**k the Hearts We all hate the Hearts, take it one step at a time, it is a cliche but it is true when you are where you are, f**k knows I have been there far too often. You won't do it, but stop feeling you have let anyone down, the fact you are still here means more to them than you will ever know & that is what you need to hold onto when it starts its nonsense. Birthday caird pish I know, but keep fighting & feel free to PM me anytime you are struggling, it doesn't go away overnight but you are over the worst of it simply by still being here. A lot of people end it without giving themselves that chance, so give yourself credit for not succumbing to it. And just because it can never be said enough, We all hate the Hearts. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Venti Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 Hoose Rice you are amazing. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnnydun Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 14 hours ago, Hoose Rice said: Mate, in all honesty and I swear it on my children I would have cards made by the kids, flowers on the table to see a present or ten wrapped up so she can share that moment with the kids opening them. I didn't get so much as a card, 4 days after going into a mental ward in hospital and when I got upset about it I was told I'm manipulative, lying to suit my agenda (what agenda, I tried to die ffs) and she was busy and I was an inpatient so it didn't matter. 8 years, three children and I mean nothing to her apart from her somehow seeing me as an enemy when all I tried for the last 18 tiresome months was to please her enough to try get my family back. I'm being honest it's the end for me and it's scary but going forward my head is more clear than it's been for years. I don't wish to argue upset or hurt the kids mum I just don't want her as part of my life as humanly possible and I'll be there for my children to teach them, when I can being bitter and twisted like her because she didn't know her own dad isn't the way to live life and I pray to god they are kind and thoughtful as much as my parents are. PM'd you bud. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dons_1988 Posted June 4, 2022 Share Posted June 4, 2022 Fantastic to see you back posting hoose rice. I can’t really add to anything that’s already been said. I know what it’s like to feel like there’s only one way out too, just know it will get better. It always does. All the best. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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