welshbairn Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 1 hour ago, Dele said: I always thought living with a spine would be a whole lot easier than being spineless, tbh. Someone with a spine wouldn't have a Helen Lovejoy fit and break up a marriage after finding out his partner snogged someone at a party. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derry Alli Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 1 hour ago, throbber said: Good for you. Still doesn’t mean a shit load of spineless people out there don’t opt for an easier life above all else. You see it all the time. FTFY. 1 hour ago, welshbairn said: Someone with a spine wouldn't have a Helen Lovejoy fit and break up a marriage after finding out his partner snogged someone at a party. You're right. They'd most likely murder the partner and dispose of the body and claim the insurance. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MONKMAN Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 1 hour ago, welshbairn said: Someone with a spine wouldn't have a Helen Lovejoy fit and break up a marriage after finding out his partner snogged someone at a party. We get it, your wife got fingered behind the Christmas tree at her office party. Anyone with a single ounce of dignity and self worth, would leave a cheating partner immediately. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welshbairn Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 51 minutes ago, MONKMAN said: We get it, your wife got fingered behind the Christmas tree at her office party. Anyone with a single ounce of dignity and self worth, would leave a cheating partner immediately. No. Logically, in the grand scheme of things, a long term relationship with kids etc shouldn't be threatened by a brief snog at a party, or even a drunken shag on a girls only holiday. But being weak, insecure and prone to jealousy as I am, I'd much rather not hear about it if it happened. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honest_Man#1 Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 2 minutes ago, welshbairn said: No. Logically, in the grand scheme of things, a long term relationship with kids etc shouldn't be threatened by a brief snog at a party, or even a drunken shag on a girls only holiday. But being weak, insecure and prone to jealousy as I am, I'd much rather not hear about it if it happened. A marriage shouldn’t be ended if your partner shags someone else? Mental. 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derry Alli Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 1 minute ago, welshbairn said: No. Logically, in the grand scheme of things, a long term relationship with kids etc shouldn't be threatened by a drunken shag on a girls only holiday. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miguel Sanchez Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 I would have assumed someone who'd cheat on their partner on a girls/guys holiday probably shouldn't be married anyway. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
19QOS19 Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 No. Logically, in the grand scheme of things, a long term relationship with kids etc shouldn't be threatened by a brief snog at a party, or even a drunken shag on a girls only holiday. But being weak, insecure and prone to jealousy as I am, I'd much rather not hear about it if it happened.If you wouldn't leave the person for sleeping with someone else anyway does it really matter if you found out? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MONKMAN Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 12 minutes ago, welshbairn said: No. Logically, in the grand scheme of things, a long term relationship with kids etc shouldn't be threatened by a brief snog at a party, or even a drunken shag on a girls only holiday. But being weak, insecure and prone to jealousy as I am, I'd much rather not hear about it if it happened. Easily one of the most ridiculous things I’ve seen written on here. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welshbairn Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 (edited) 8 minutes ago, 19QOS19 said: 22 minutes ago, welshbairn said: No. Logically, in the grand scheme of things, a long term relationship with kids etc shouldn't be threatened by a brief snog at a party, or even a drunken shag on a girls only holiday. But being weak, insecure and prone to jealousy as I am, I'd much rather not hear about it if it happened. If you wouldn't leave the person for sleeping with someone else anyway does it really matter if you found out? If I found out I'd probably go mad with jealousy and be impossible to live with, and the relationship would end whether I wanted it to or not. It would be a shame for a strong partnership to end, especially with kids involved, because of a momentary lapse, and because someone thought he was being a good mate. Edited October 2, 2019 by welshbairn 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derry Alli Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 8 minutes ago, MONKMAN said: Easily one of the most ridiculous things I’ve seen written on here. There is absolutely no logic to it at all. It's baffling. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derry Alli Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 1 minute ago, welshbairn said: If I found out I'd probably go mad with jealousy and be impossible to live with, and the relationship would end whether I wanted it to or not. It would be a shame for a strong partnership to end, especially with kids involved, because of a momentary lapse, and because someone thought he was being a good mate. 'Strong partnership' She just got shagged on holiday, m8. It makes absolutely no difference that kids are involved. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honest_Man#1 Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 2 minutes ago, welshbairn said: If I found out I'd probably go mad with jealousy and be impossible to live with, and the relationship would end whether I wanted it to or not. It would be a shame for a strong partnership to end, especially with kids involved, because of a momentary lapse. Wouldn’t really be a strong partnership would it though if she’s happily taken the boaby behind your back (and therefore will undoubtedly do it again)? -1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
19QOS19 Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 ^^^ what those two said. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonksy+HisChristianParade Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 I’d tell one of my mates but wouldn’t tell on one of my mates. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJ2 Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 What about if Mrs Welshbairn was to enjoy an evening, perhaps numerous evenings, of passion with, for example only of course, a member of a football forum...hopefully that’s fine... 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BillyAnchor Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 What if your partner (female) went with Margot Robbie? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bairnardo Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 What if your partner (female) went with Margot Robbie?Binned for not inviting me. Easier decision than any other hypothetical offered so far. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacksgranda Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 On 01/10/2019 at 16:32, pandarilla said: Life isn't this straightforward though. Surely you've been out before with a group of folk (usually works nights out) and some flirting starts? The idea that if you've ever wanted to shag someone else other than your partner then your relationship is not right is way too harsh. If you're 'always' wanting to shag someone else or you can't stop thinking about shagging someone else then that's a different matter. Sometimes you need discipline. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CountyFan Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 Some absolute shitebags on this thread. Glad none of you are my mates if this is how little respect you have for them. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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