Ylf Posted October 4, 2019 Author Share Posted October 4, 2019 They're not jannies anymore, they are Building Supervisorsno they are not. resource assistants 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacksgranda Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 9 minutes ago, Ylf said: no they are not. resource assistants Ours is a Building Supervisor 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 Leaving me even more confused with this thread than the name change. Not sure why, she wasn't getting any stick. I dunno, she seems like she's had a fair amount. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bairnardo Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 It can take a lot of guts to open up about your fetish desires with your partner.....but also quite liberating and rewarding. f**k it. Life's too short imo.Or just start off by claiming you pissed the bed in your sleep, then start mixing in some sleepwalking? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Am Featha Taigh Nan Clach Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 Sjc's 'I want you all to think I have a really wild and kinky sex life' is getting a bit boring.No one cares. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerberus Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 There’s a ton of incels on here. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICTChris Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 Who?https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Elaine_O'HaraI’m only joking, I’m sure you and almost everyone else isn’t anything like Graham Dwyer. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
invergowrie arab Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 1 hour ago, sjc said: It can take a lot of guts to open up about your fetish desires with your partner.....but also quite liberating and rewarding. f**k it. Life's too short imo. This sounds intriguing. Tell us more about.... Actually dont no one gives a f**k. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnnydun Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 6 hours ago, 19QOS19 said: I'm just waiting for someone (most likely a Dundonian) to cone along and say they called a Jannie by a different name. No, of course they are not called anything else! Why would they be? What a silly thing to come out with. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muzz1886 Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 To get back on topic, unfortunately I have first hand experience of being cheated on, my ex-wife had numerous affairs. To cut a very long story short, the devastating affect it has had on me, both families and my four year old can't be understated. The chances are that she was unfaithful before we got married too and my thoughts are that someone must have known something and no one cracked a light. In short, my life, and the lives of my (and her) nearest and dearest have been brutalized, financially and most importantly, mentally. If anyone is aware of a friend who is being cheated on, tell them, no matter how difficult the conversation is going to be. The trauma of a broken marriage and failed family is horrific. I wouldn't wish the pain on anyone. Basically women and people who know and say nothing are c***s. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJ2 Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 To get back on topic, unfortunately I have first hand experience of being cheated on, my ex-wife had numerous affairs. To cut a very long story short, the devastating affect it has had on me, both families and my four year old can't be understated. The chances are that she was unfaithful before we got married too and my thoughts are that someone must have known something and no one cracked a light. In short, my life, and the lives of my (and her) nearest and dearest have been brutalized, financially and most importantly, mentally. If anyone is aware of a friend who is being cheated on, tell them, no matter how difficult the conversation is going to be. The trauma of a broken marriage and failed family is horrific. I wouldn't wish the pain on anyone. Basically women and people who know and say nothing are c***s.I’m genuinely sorry to hear about what happened. It sounds a really shite time and I hope you can get deal with it and go on to be a great father for your wee one. The woman that created this situation, and folk that knew you and never said anything definitely in some part are c***s, however not all women are c***s. Silly, heat of the moment but sexist comment. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
senorsoupe Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 (edited) Many many years ago when my sister was still married, her husband (we will call him Jon) at the time invited a few of the lads over for beers while my sister was away on business for a month. After much alcohol the only ones left were Jon, me, her best friends husband (we will call him Mike), and some random female student (he was a community college teacher). A significant amount of alcohol revealed the information that he was having an affair with said student. The next day I had a chat with Mike and the plan was formulated that he told his wife (my sister's best friend) and she called Jon to give him a one week ultimatum that he had to confess to my sister or she would tell her. Jon confessed, the divorce process soon followed Edited October 4, 2019 by senorsoupe 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnnydun Posted October 5, 2019 Share Posted October 5, 2019 8 hours ago, senorsoupe said: Jon Calling cards of Morons for this pish. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honest_Man#1 Posted October 5, 2019 Share Posted October 5, 2019 11 hours ago, Muzz1886 said: To get back on topic, unfortunately I have first hand experience of being cheated on, my ex-wife had numerous affairs. To cut a very long story short, the devastating affect it has had on me, both families and my four year old can't be understated. The chances are that she was unfaithful before we got married too and my thoughts are that someone must have known something and no one cracked a light. In short, my life, and the lives of my (and her) nearest and dearest have been brutalized, financially and most importantly, mentally. If anyone is aware of a friend who is being cheated on, tell them, no matter how difficult the conversation is going to be. The trauma of a broken marriage and failed family is horrific. I wouldn't wish the pain on anyone. Basically women and people who know and say nothing are c***s. Prime example of why not saying anything is unbelievably cruel. It’ll come out at some point, so the knowledge needs to be given to the person to let them decide what to do. -1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy Dufresne Posted October 5, 2019 Share Posted October 5, 2019 My driver helper was delivering in the city centre last week and saw his mates girlfriend come out of a flat with another guy arm in arm he called his mate for a chat and just brought up in the conversation asking if she was working today and was told yes. He told his mate what he had seen and let's just say the couple are not together anymore. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacksgranda Posted October 5, 2019 Share Posted October 5, 2019 12 hours ago, Muzz1886 said: To get back on topic, unfortunately I have first hand experience of being cheated on, my ex-wife had numerous affairs. To cut a very long story short, the devastating affect it has had on me, both families and my four year old can't be understated. The chances are that she was unfaithful before we got married too and my thoughts are that someone must have known something and no one cracked a light. In short, my life, and the lives of my (and her) nearest and dearest have been brutalized, financially and most importantly, mentally. If anyone is aware of a friend who is being cheated on, tell them, no matter how difficult the conversation is going to be. The trauma of a broken marriage and failed family is horrific. I wouldn't wish the pain on anyone. Basically women and people who know and say nothing are c***s. My wife's best friend's husband was having an affair, and apparently it was the talk of the village, "everyone" knew apart from the wife. So my wife told her - this was before we were even married, so it must be at least 24 years ago. The upshot? "Best friend" has been in our house about twice in the last 22 years - it used to be twice a week - and the husband stopped speaking to my wife, and still doesn't. And they're still married. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted October 5, 2019 Share Posted October 5, 2019 6 minutes ago, Jacksgranda said: My wife's best friend's husband was having an affair, and apparently it was the talk of the village, "everyone" knew apart from the wife. So my wife told her - this was before we were even married, so it must be at least 24 years ago. The upshot? "Best friend" has been in our house about twice in the last 22 years - it used to be twice a week - and the husband stopped speaking to my wife, and still doesn't. And they're still married. Has this been because the best friend didn't believe her, or because she's mortified that her pal knows what a fool she is (or that she's in an open relationship and is embarrassed)? Either way, she's made her bed. Her loss. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacksgranda Posted October 5, 2019 Share Posted October 5, 2019 1 minute ago, BigFatTabbyDave said: Has this been because the best friend didn't believe her, or because she's mortified that her pal knows what a fool she is (or that she's in an open relationship and is embarrassed)? Either way, she's made her bed. Her loss. I think the husband denied it, but the wife was (fairly) sure it was true, but more than likely the husband told her to stop visiting/being friends with my wife, as that would show she believed her and not him. (It may not have been his first affair either). To be quite honest it's that long ago I can't really remember all the finer points! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted October 5, 2019 Share Posted October 5, 2019 Just now, Jacksgranda said: I think the husband denied it, but the wife was (fairly) sure it was true, but more than likely the husband told her to stop visiting/being friends with my wife, as that would show she believed her and not him. (It may not have been his first affair either). To be quite honest it's that long ago I can't really remember all the finer points! That shit gives me the boak. Our partners all have friends that we don't get on with, but adults either put up with them or make arrangements to limit the time they personally have to spend around them. Folk that issue diktats to their spouses about who they can and can't see are creepy as f**k, and the spouses who go along with it are pathetic. I'm retrospectively very angry on your wife's behalf 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacksgranda Posted October 5, 2019 Share Posted October 5, 2019 8 minutes ago, Jacksgranda said: I think the husband denied it, but the wife was (fairly) sure it was true, but more than likely the husband told her to stop visiting/being friends with my wife, as that would show she believed her and not him. (It may not have been his first affair either). To be quite honest it's that long ago I can't really remember all the finer points! 1 minute ago, BigFatTabbyDave said: That shit gives me the boak. Our partners all have friends that we don't get on with, but adults either put up with them or make arrangements to limit the time they personally have to spend around them. Folk that issue diktats to their spouses about who they can and can't see are creepy as f**k, and the spouses who go along with it are pathetic. I'm retrospectively very angry on your wife's behalf That might be an assumption on my part! However he's a nasty piece of work, fell out with his two brothers and one of his sisters - who were caring for their mother, 99 I think she was - about putting her into a care home or something along those lines (maybe it was they put her into a care home for a week or two while they got a break and he didn't like it, not that he ever offered to take a night looking after her, although his wife did), and then spread malicious rumours about one of said brothers, who was dying of stomach cancer, that he was dying of something more sinister, and people shouldn't take communion wine after he had drunk from the cup, he even went to their minister with this story. I think my wife regrets telling her friend, but she would have felt far worse had she not done so, and her friend had found out/been told by someone else and then asked my wife "Did you know about it?". 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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