The OP Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 I thought being poly meant you went to Caley or Napier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GordonD Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 7 minutes ago, The OP said: I thought being poly meant you went to Caley or Napier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbornbairn Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 I find it hard enough disappointing one woman at a time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony Ferrino Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 Polyamory in Balamory would be twist. Miss Hoolie and Edie McCreadie embracing more liberal lifestyles. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adam Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 Fwiw I seen a polyamorous couple on naked attraction and the lassie was a serious wid. She looked utter filth, and whilst it is every man’s dream for his girlfriend to be attracted to another woman/threesome, I don’t know on what planet it would work. Different strokes for different folks.I was seeing a couple of girls at one point last year in the early stages of things, and even down to emojis and the number of kisses on the end of a message gave me the fear in case I fucked up, so quickly binned the one that wasn’t really my type. Couldn’t be dealing with the stress! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hillonearth Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 "...solo polyamory, where you identify as polyamorous, but are not currently in multiple relationships." Or as we used to call it, living in hope while ripping the heid off it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jagfox Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 There was these three lassies up my gran’s bit but you wouldn’t know them... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suspect Device Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 40 minutes ago, NewBornBairn said: I find it hard enough disappointing one woman at a time. If it's hard enough, what's disappointing? I'd suggest some tongue and fingers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacksgranda Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 3 hours ago, ICTChris said: Do any other P&Bers find the people in the article extremely self absorbed, childish and clearly unable to deal with the level of self sacrifice and compromise that an actual adult relationship entails? Yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dorlomin Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 Probably a couple of fellas on here in polly relationships, the wifes just not got round to telling them yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 Do any other P&Bers find the people in the article extremely self absorbed, childish and clearly unable to deal with the level of self sacrifice and compromise that an actual adult relationship entails? You aren’t really making monogamy out to be much fun either here tbf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICTChris Posted September 25, 2018 Author Share Posted September 25, 2018 1 minute ago, throbber said: You aren’t really making monogamy out to be much fun either here tbf. Self sacrifice and compromise is great fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GordonS Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 6 hours ago, Ross. said: Before I met my current missus I was single for around 9 months. At one point during that period I was shagging 4 different women on a regular basis. I won’t justify it as polyamourous, I just really liked getting my hole as often as a could. Nothing but pure male ego for me, and a mixture of immaturity and ego for the folk in that article. ... for this pish. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mishtergrolsch Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 Polyamory. A word people use so they dont have to tell friends and family they have a few f**k buddies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 One of the wife's oldest friends is in a three-way relationship with two women, one of whom he's married to. They've all lived together for about ten years, and see other people on the side if the mood takes them. I think he's had two kids with one of them, and one with the other, and the kids are being brought up to consider that they have three parents. I haven't met the women, but I'm automatically a bit sorry for the one that was left out of the wedding. I'm guessing they involved her in some way, but surely you'd feel a little left out. It's probably not a bad thing if inveterate shaggers feel more comfortable admitting it; getting married and sneaking around behind your spouse's back is the traditional route, and it doesn't seem to work out well for most. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bully Wee Villa Posted September 25, 2018 Share Posted September 25, 2018 It just sounds like extra people to have to apologise to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross. Posted September 26, 2018 Share Posted September 26, 2018 12 hours ago, G_Man1985 said: 14 hours ago, Ross. said: Before I met my current missus I was single for around 9 months. At one point during that period I was shagging 4 different women on a regular basis. I won’t justify it as polyamourous, I just really liked getting my hole as often as a could. Nothing but pure male ego for me, and a mixture of immaturity and ego for the folk in that article. Did any of them know each other? None of them knew each other but all of them knew I was sleeping around. 1 girl was happy to continue with things on that very casual basis, the rest lost interest when they realized I had zero inclination of moving things on with them only. 7 hours ago, GordonS said: ... for this pish. Gerritupye! Was surprised it took so long for someone to link that. This place ain’t what it used to be... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GordonD Posted September 26, 2018 Share Posted September 26, 2018 14 hours ago, jagfox99 said: There was these three lassies up my gran’s bit but you wouldn’t know them... Your gran sounds a very accommodating woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AsimButtHitsASix Posted September 26, 2018 Share Posted September 26, 2018 Was seeing two lassies at the tail end of last year. One was monogamous and one was polyamorous and I was equally keen on both of them but ended up breaking it off with the poly girl. There's just too much fucking admin involved. She had a google calendar so she would know which guy or girl she'd be spending time with on any given day. In retrospect she was only twenty minutes away by bus as opposed to an hour away by tube. Should have factored in transit. ETA: She lived in a vegan house share with six other folk who were all poly as well. Everyone had to make dinner for everyone else once a week and no alcohol was allowed in the house. It was the single most "North London" thing I've ever seen. They all worked in the "green" sector and none of them had been to Scotland apart from Edinburgh for the fringe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted September 26, 2018 Share Posted September 26, 2018 18 minutes ago, GordonD said: Your gran sounds a very accommodating woman. She is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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