Thistle_do_nicely Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Rab randomly making a The Ev post in a thread about James Bulger a while back and trying to mock other posters over sensitive disclosures made on here is inexcusable. Fairly sure he claimed to have been a teacher too, so it's not even like he's some sort of edgy teenager that might grow out of it. An all-round worthless human being. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamboMikey Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Dunno why you wouldn't post about your personal life on here. There's folk that will have known each other through P&B for well over a decade. Roasting f**k out each other about football and other stuff is fine but slagging someone off about losing their child/addiction is sociopath behaviour. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 I can’t believe enigma is being pinned as a rape apologist on the back of that post. We’ll be accusing him of voting for Brexit next. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ylf Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 I posted about struggling mentally after losing a kid and the coke was something I was rattling to take my mind off of things. He's posted before telling me to 'get back on it' during one of my sober attempts. It doesn't bother me in the slightest, I have to say that as it is my problems and I'll sort my shit out. Its just fucking weird that he'd bring it up alongside half and half scarfs and "never been to a foreign game". just ignore the fud dele. i’ve struggled in the past with coke. been off it for a few months now. it’s hard enough without p***ks having digs at you. keep the head up and ignore. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post johnnydun Posted January 11, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted January 11, 2020 20 hours ago, Enigma said: To be honest, if you don’t want stuff like that brought back up at you, don’t post it. Quite simple. I don’t fancy I’d ever make a post in the future about my health or personal or family life or whatever. Not exactly keen on a bunch of saddos online knowing anything about that. No, not keen on a bunch of saddos online knowing anything about that at all.... Never looked for help from the P&B community, no, not him..... Just as well he doesn't mind this stuff brought back up..... Nothing to see here.... On 26/10/2010 at 00:24, Enigma said: I am back in Haddington on a mission to do as much of the work set to me as possible. I am stressing out about it quite a lot, I just spent the last two hours desperately reading about Edmund Burke to little avail. The next few days are going to be grim but at least I have few distractions and hopefully I will return to Stirling this weekend feeling much better indeed about everything. On 17/11/2009 at 13:58, Enigma said: Im feeling a bit bunged up. Have a slight fever and a blocked nose. On 06/06/2009 at 01:08, Enigma said: Feeling a tad stressed, my inability to find a summer job in Haddington and waiting for exam results and the ones I have recieved have hardly set the heather on fire On 04/09/2010 at 19:30, Enigma said: I hate the way I wind myself up about little things! I can even get a bit stressed about a good thing! On 04/04/2010 at 00:17, Enigma said: Something has been bothering me for the past few days and I can't put my finger on it. I think im getting a bit stressed out by a combination of uni work and lack of money. I think a good great in my latest essay and some extra dosh would ease the pain. My only close-to-sexual encounter this year was with some fucking skank aswell... On 19/09/2013 at 17:54, Enigma said: My mum takes Diazepam, as in that she's prescribed them. She told me to get stuffed when I tried to politely suggested she give me one. She told me she has some purple pills somewhere for when you really need to calm down though, but I agreed it probably wasn't the best idea. Thanks! Usually I'm fine when it gets started and calm down but I've had two interviews which I made a bit of an arse of. The first one I was kind of stuffed from the start as the woman interviewing my blatantly just didn't like me (we'd had a seminar thing before 1 to 1 interviews) she made sure I was in first and asked me some really nasty questions, one which tripped me up spectacularly. The other was a particularly intimidating set up. Two men were sitting behind a long table and there was a solitary chair at the other side of the room, it felt like a military trial. I fidgeted throughout, which I only noticed 3/4 of the way through and my voice must have sounded nervous. The last question they asked me was a real left of centre out of the blue type. I couldn't think of an answer and came up with some real generic pish after some umming and erring, I gave one or two other pretty poor answers that day too. That said the last interview I had went very well despite not getting the job. I've improved since the above experiences. I was nervous before but calmed right down in the interview, if I can repeat that I'll be fine. The telephone interview I had for this job went very well indeed. If I have a bit of luck with the questions, the interviewer(s) and the others being interviewed I'll be grand. I just need to convince myself I'll be fine. Just as well we are not all dickheads. It's good to ask for help and advice when you need it on here, I actively encourage it on The Depression thread. Talking about things is better than any medication. Just try not to have a short memory and give a little support back to those who need it, as it was those same people that gave it to you. 27 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 6 minutes ago, ali_91 said: Dele posting something personal, which as has been said is one of the best things about this forum that it is a safe haven to post things semi anonymously, and having it used against him is in no way Dele’s fault, and he certainly isn’t ‘partly responsible,’ for some low life with an English team using it against him. That being said it’s not a massive deal, and my man Dele most likely doesn’t really care. It just outs Rab as a massive c**t, and Enigma as someone who has read the situation terribly. Theres a big difference between saying that some victims of crime are partially responsible, for example the below, and saying that ‘you’ve never got the victim blaming argument.’ The victim blaming argument is synonymous with rape and what a woman is wearing, and unless you think a woman wearing a short skirt is partly responsible for getting raped, you obviously do get the ‘victim blaming argument.’ First of all, I said I didn't agree with @Enigma take on @Dele posting personal things about his life on P&B. I've done the very same myself. Secondly, where did I say "a woman wearing a short skirt is asking to be raped"? I didn't, and I certainly wouldn't say that, extreme case as it is. However, pointing out that getting parallegically drunk, losing your friends and passing out in the street is likely to increase the likelihood of something bad happening to you shouldn't be confused with victim blaming. Victim blaming and assessing situational risks aren't the same thing. Hence why I said they weren't mutually exclusive. There was an advert campaign in the UK recommending this to women about 10 years ago. In a perfect utopia nobody would bring harm to anyone but that's not the World we live in. Even more so for women sadly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honest_Man#1 Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 8 minutes ago, sjc said: In a perfect utopia nobody would bring harm to anyone but that's not the World we live in. Even more so for women sadly. Why is it (particularly in the case of women being assaulted) certain people go straight to talking about what the victim could have done differently to be safer, rather than focusing on the person actually committing the crime as the cause of it? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 8 minutes ago, Honest_Man#1 said: Why is it (particularly in the case of women being assaulted) certain people go straight to talking about what the victim could have done differently to be safer, rather than focusing on the person actually committing the crime as the cause of it? Who did this? I certainly never. I was pointing out the difference between victim blaming and situational risk awareness, as in crime prevention by looking at previous incidents. Unfortunately, in some previous cases the victims actions may have put them in harms way. Does this excuse the perpetrator? Of course not, but in order to learn from it, it tends to be discussed. It's the same with accident inquiries. -1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 (edited) 11 minutes ago, ali_91 said: This is absolutely not what you said though and you’re changing the goalposts from your original comment: Yes, in that I don't get equating victim blaming to situational risk awareness. They're very different things that seem to be thrown in together when discussing rape cases. Hence my "not mutually exclusive" comment. Edited January 11, 2020 by sjc -1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICTChris Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 This is almost the best rape related Heads Gone since Xbl said he was like a rape victim. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 30 minutes ago, ICTChris said: Xbl said he was like a rape victim. Sobbing, inconsolable, angry, confused? Could be any number on here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benjamin_Nevis Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 This is almost the best rape related Heads Gone since Xbl said he was like a rape victim.Wasn't that why he was eventually banned? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Skidmarks Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 5 minutes ago, Day of the Lords said: 1 hour ago, ICTChris said: This is almost the best rape related Heads Gone since Xbl said he was like a rape victim. Wasn't that why he was eventually banned? The tail end of the Best Posters thread I think. Quite the send off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marshmallo Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 The Million Memories Poster. Some boy. -1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 29 minutes ago, Bobby Skidmarks said: The tail end of the Best Posters thread I think. Quite the send off. Wasn't he sailing close to the wind with his exchanges with Supras.....be specific.....and all that tedium? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Skidmarks Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 2 minutes ago, sjc said: Wasn't he sailing close to the wind with his exchanges with Supras.....be specific.....and all that tedium? f**k knows. I thought it was Supras and Dubs that had the ongoing tedious war. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 (edited) 10 minutes ago, Bobby Skidmarks said: f**k knows. I thought it was Supras and Dubs that had the ongoing tedious war. You might be right. Who was Dubs again? Edited January 11, 2020 by sjc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marshmallo Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 It was Dubs and XBL that had an ongoing feud. I loved it, great entertainment. "Shall we dance?" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ira Gaines Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 19 hours ago, Dele said: ^^ Holla out to this boy, btw. A great laddie. I'd prefer a line was drawn under this all and we can get back to slagging one another. (Genuinely thanks though, it's been really heartwarming reading. I'm just going to go back to annoying folks now. Much love. x) Get fucked c**t Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ira Gaines Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 1 hour ago, Marshmallo said: The Million Memories Poster. Some boy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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