Shandon Par Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 I was in a relationship that had long overrun its course and was struggling to end it. The Christmas holidays were approaching so this seemed like an ideal time to sit down and spend some time together and discuss why we had to split up. I went to Majestic wine and spent about £80 on various poisons and after a couple of days of Dutch courage decided to finally blurt out that I'd been lying whenever she asked if I'd cheated on her and I'd said no. I rattled off a few encounters and thought that would do the trick to have her out the door. Instead, she took it well and said it was okay as she too had cheated on me various times and that it was good to be honest about it. Took another few days to finally get her out the door. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honest Saints Fan Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 I'm going to start a rumour that Ruggy met HSF via a weird cuckolding/swinging party, all based around the P&B 5s tournament. That's not a rumour... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Moonster Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 If a guy sleeps with lots of girls then he is a legend. Only to the "LAD" brigade. Everyone else thinks he's a bit of a c**t. What a load of crap. Regardless of who you are with most folk are still going to be tempted if offered it on a plate. Some folk have weak impulse control and its no reflection on their missus. How folk feelThey're in a position to comment on other people's lives with such authority i will never know... I don't cheat now but have in the past. No reflection on my missus or how i felt about her. That's a bit like when morbidly obese folk say they've got a slow metabolism. "Honest, it's not my fault I've got weak impulse control". Yeah, no one's buying it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neilly Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 Ruggys pumped a few birds off here has he not? Top shagger. Mind Kilt cheated on his blind wife and got caught? Them wur the dayz! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
19QOS19 Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 What a load of crap. Regardless of who you are with most folk are still going to be tempted if offered it on a plate. Some folk have weak impulse control and its no reflection on their missus. How folk feelThey're in a position to comment on other people's lives with such authority i will never know... I don't cheat now but have in the past. No reflection on my missus or how i felt about her. You've described your own post in the first sentence Everyone looks, and IMO there's nothing wrong with looking so long as you don't touch! If I genuinely thought I'd go with another lassie should the opportunity arise then I wouldn't be with my missus as I obviously wouldn't be getting what I wanted from the relationship. It's not a reflection on your missus when you cheated on her in the past, I agree. But I disagree with the second part. Obviously something was missing for you or you surely wouldn't go looking elsewhere? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honest_Man#1 Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 Completely agree with 19QOS19 here. Think it's pretty bang out and I'm shocked by the amount of people who don't seem to give a f**k about doing it. HSF and Ruggy must have the least trusting marriage ever. Constantly wondering which one will cheat first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweaty Morph Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 If a guy sleeps with lots of girls then he is a legend. If a girl does the same then she is a slut. That is life A key that opens many locks: Master key A lock that can be opened by any old key? Worthless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dee Man Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 You've described your own post in the first sentence Everyone looks, and IMO there's nothing wrong with looking so long as you don't touch! If I genuinely thought I'd go with another lassie should the opportunity arise then I wouldn't be with my missus as I obviously wouldn't be getting what I wanted from the relationship. It's not a reflection on your missus when you cheated on her in the past, I agree. But I disagree with the second part. Obviously something was missing for you or you surely wouldn't go looking elsewhere? Men are pre-programmed to f**k everything that moves. Some have got higher sex drives than others, some have got better will power and some have got more of a conscience. I'm not sure I could keep to my vows if Kelly Brook offered me a 69er. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welshbairn Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 There's nothing worse than finding out your girlfriend has been cheating on you. On the other hand you never feel more alive than when you're cheating on your girlfriend. That's God telling us it's ok for men to cheat but it's abominable for women to do so. Unless it's you they're shagging of course, it does get complicated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doulikefish Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 Every holes a goals ladz!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattydfc Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 I think if it's only once you can forgive each other, things happen in the heat of the moment and a one night stand can be a genuine mistake. Having an affair is unacceptable though. If I found out my missus was having an affair I'd rip slash her throat. Probably. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honest Saints Fan Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 Completely agree with 19QOS19 here. Think it's pretty bang out and I'm shocked by the amount of people who don't seem to give a f**k about doing it. HSF and Ruggy must have the least trusting marriage ever. Constantly wondering which one will cheat first. Just because you've cheated on a previous partner doesn't mean you will do it again. I was 18/19 when I was cheating on my ex. He lived in a different country, I rarely saw him. We had been together since I was 14 and the relationship was going nowhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
19QOS19 Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 I think if it's only once you can forgive each other, things happen in the heat of the moment and a one night stand can be a genuine mistake. Having an affair is unacceptable though. If I found out my missus was having an affair I'd rip slash her throat. Probably. "I didn't mean to put my dick in her darling, honest. I just kind of tripped!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Chlamydia Kid Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 Only to the "LAD" brigade. Everyone else thinks he's a bit of a c**t. That's a bit like when morbidly obese folk say they've got a slow metabolism. "Honest, it's not my fault I've got weak impulse control". Yeah, no one's buying it. Why else would they eat themselves into an early grave? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattydfc Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 "I didn't mean to put my dick in her darling, honest. I just kind of tripped!" You better not be getting fucking lippy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Moonster Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 Why else would they eat themselves into an early grave? Because they're lazy and greedy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Chlamydia Kid Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 You've described your own post in the first sentence Everyone looks, and IMO there's nothing wrong with looking so long as you don't touch! If I genuinely thought I'd go with another lassie should the opportunity arise then I wouldn't be with my missus as I obviously wouldn't be getting what I wanted from the relationship. It's not a reflection on your missus when you cheated on her in the past, I agree. But I disagree with the second part. Obviously something was missing for you or you surely wouldn't go looking elsewhere? So you have no sexual thoughts whatsoever about anyone else other than your missus? I don't believe that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
19QOS19 Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 You better not be getting fucking lippy So you have no sexual thoughts whatsoever about anyone else other than your missus? I don't believe that. I've already answered that and made it perfectly clear that everyone looks. I've no doubt in my mind that my missus does as well. In fact, she's Peter Andre daft the stupid cow. But I couldn't care what thoughts she has about other guys, so long as that's all it is. Of course I have thoughts about other woman. Any guy who looks at Katy Perry and Michelle Keegan and doesn't imagine having a go on them, is talking shite. That's not the issue though, we're talking about acting on thoughts. Fantasising about other women is a totally different issue to actually cheating on someone. IMO anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gavin_3110 Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 Until this thread I honestly thought 19QOS19 was a bird... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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