ICTChris Posted January 6, 2015 Author Share Posted January 6, 2015 Where did you find that photo of us? Are you the new Kilt? Yep, I'll be round to w**k into your letterbox on Thursday night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unleash The Nade Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 I would say yes you do change a lot between 21 and 34 and that is a substantial gap Another thing that bothers me is that if an older man starts seeing a 16 year old girl. Fair enough its "legal" but his intentions would have been the same months before when she was under age so is he not pretty much still a paedo? Do you realise how ridiculous a statement that is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Do you realise how ridiculous a statement that is? I think its a fair point, why must you constantly criticise me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny Danger Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 The idea that you can take a general rule of thumb and apply it to specific instances is ridiculous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monster Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 There's 13 years between myself and Ruggy. Very rarely notice the age gap. That's because you're the same generation. 30 years is a generation gap and would be more of a concern. Clearly Stephen Fry is making an error, but he is too smitten to see it. Yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Koop Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 I think that is creepy as f**k tbh my dad is 30 years older than me and i certainly wouldn't like to have sex with him That boys prob in it for the money A fine post there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 A fine post there. He is a very critical man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unleash The Nade Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 I think its a fair point, why must you constantly criticise me? If a man waits until a girl is the legal age before having a relationship with her, how on earth can you say he is "pretty much still a Paedo?" The fact that he waited until she was the legal age, makes it ,well, legal!. What your actually saying, is people can be tarred with a certain brush , just for having thoughts. In answer to your second point a) because it's easy,b) because you set yourself up for it and c) you come across as a fucking idiot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 If a man waits until a girl is the legal age before having a relationship with her, how on earth can you say he is "pretty much still a Paedo?" The fact that he waited until she was the legal age, makes it ,well, legal!. What your actually saying, is people can be tarred with a certain brush , just for having thoughts. In answer to your second point a) because it's easy,b) because you set yourself up for it and c) you come across as a fucking idiot I still think its a pretty seedy thing to do to prowl about a 15 year old until she turns 16 because you are still having indecent thoughts about an underager until the law says its alright to lay her to the sword. You could if you wanted to start making love to her at 1159 and then be finished by 1201 and not be a paedo And i take your point C very personally, i thought we had a decent rapport? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unleash The Nade Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 I still think its a pretty seedy thing to do to prowl about a 15 year old until she turns 16 because you are still having indecent thoughts about an underager until the law says its alright to lay her to the sword. You could if you wanted to start making love to her at 1159 and then be finished by 1201 and not be a paedo And i take your point C very personally, i thought we had a decent rapport? Read your original quote. You said," if a man starts seeing a 16 year old girl" Also, if I understand what you're trying to say here, if you started making love to her when she was 15 and at 11.59pm on the eve of her 16th birthday, then you would be breaking the law, as she'd still be 15! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Septentrional Wasp Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 My missus of approx. 4 1/2 years was a wee bit funny about the age gap between us when we started seeing each other. I was 23 and she was 27. I didn't see the problem myself and it soon went away. Now I'm 27 however, if I was single, I'm not sure I would start a relationship with anyone <23. That's probably more to do with maturity than physical age though. Absolutely no upper limit for me though. Well, until it just starts getting gross. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Romeo Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 My wife is 5 years older than me and hates being reminded of it, so it gets mentioned at every opportunity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheScarf Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 My missus is 2 years and 9 months younger than me. I'm 29 and she is 26. That's borderline ok IMO. Any more of a gap is weird and creepy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Read your original quote. You said," if a man starts seeing a 16 year old girl" Also, if I understand what you're trying to say here, if you started making love to her when she was 15 and at 11.59pm on the eve of her 16th birthday, then you would be breaking the law, as she'd still be 15! Aye but I'm speaking in hypotheticals Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 I was seeing a 25year old last summer which was on the whole fine but a bit weird when discussing old movies and music...........to put it into context - she was 3years old when I left school! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zen Archer (Raconteur) Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Shotgun wedding IMO. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICTChris Posted January 6, 2015 Author Share Posted January 6, 2015 When I was 21 I went out with an 18 year old, my wife (four months younger than me) still calls me a paedo about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Shotgun wedding IMO. With Stephen's history of depression I sincerely hope not..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 When I was 21 I went out with an 18 year old, my wife (four months younger than me) still calls me a paedo about it. Kick her in the pie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandomGuy. Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 If you can recount leaving school and your partner says they werent even born at that point, then youre a BEAST Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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