Lisa Cuddy Posted May 25, 2019 Share Posted May 25, 2019 Has she... FOLLOWED you up there? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ex Machina Posted May 26, 2019 Share Posted May 26, 2019 Sounds like you're recovering and sorting yourself out really well. Don't suppose there's a way to check if she's going to be around on your day in the office? If you do bump into her I'd try to be cooly polite then blank her as much as possible without being overtly hostile.Thanks, there's not really any way of checking. It's a massive building and we'll be on different floors and departments so the chances of seeing her are minimal but I suppose it's the slight chance of it happening that's getting me panicked. Has she... FOLLOWED you up there? I don't think so, the person she was having the affair with lives in Scotland and she used to come up every second weekend but I'd presumed it due to her being homesick and missing her family. So I imagine she was always going to be moving up regardless. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welshbairn Posted May 26, 2019 Share Posted May 26, 2019 43 minutes ago, ListerRRFC said: Stupidly, all our debts were in my name so I've been lumped with thousands of pounds worth that I'll need to figure out how to pay off. Alternatively you could scream, where's my fucking money bitch! When you've trapped her in a broom cupboard, obviously. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa Cuddy Posted May 26, 2019 Share Posted May 26, 2019 You're well rid, mate. Sounds like she's thoughtless and selfish at best. At worst, a total fucking narcissist. Best avoided. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stellaboz Posted May 26, 2019 Share Posted May 26, 2019 Glad you're still here and fighting on, she sounds like a total cow. I'm also glad you've found someone else to enjoy some time with, that'll help you move on even if it's not a long term thing. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted May 26, 2019 Share Posted May 26, 2019 12 hours ago, ListerRRFC said: Thanks, there's not really any way of checking. It's a massive building and we'll be on different floors and departments so the chances of seeing her are minimal but I suppose it's the slight chance of it happening that's getting me panicked. I don't think so, the person she was having the affair with lives in Scotland and she used to come up every second weekend but I'd presumed it due to her being homesick and missing her family. So I imagine she was always going to be moving up regardless. You can't leave it to chance. It's a nailed on certainty you'll bump in to her. Either have a plan to avoid or have a strategy for when you do meet her. Pie boot etc etc is probably out of the question. Maybe just control it, go up to her say hello and walk away. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Za4321 Posted May 27, 2019 Share Posted May 27, 2019 I know this thread is mainly about depression but has anyone dealt with or knows someone who has dealt with psychosis or something similar? I don't really understand how it'll work if (assuming I'm diagnosing correctly) it's discussed with a GP. What will the process involve?Is there a standard time off they'll give? What happens with their job? Will they have to go back to work after x amount of months no matter what? I just want to get out in front of it before appointments start being made. Got another account but wanted to keep it private. Not for me btw. A friend. Thanks for any info. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welshbairn Posted May 27, 2019 Share Posted May 27, 2019 55 minutes ago, Za4321 said: I know this thread is mainly about depression but has anyone dealt with or knows someone who has dealt with psychosis or something similar? I don't really understand how it'll work if (assuming I'm diagnosing correctly) it's discussed with a GP. What will the process involve?Is there a standard time off they'll give? What happens with their job? Will they have to go back to work after x amount of months no matter what? I just want to get out in front of it before appointments start being made. Got another account but wanted to keep it private. Not for me btw. A friend. Thanks for any info. Think that's too vague for anyone to give you useful answers. The GP might or might not refer your friend to a psychologist or psychiatrist, medicine may or may not be prescribed, inpatient or outpatient care might be provided, or not. The GP might just suggest some fresh air, exercise and going to bed early. And there won't be a standard time off etc. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AL-FFC Posted May 27, 2019 Share Posted May 27, 2019 1 hour ago, Za4321 said: I know this thread is mainly about depression but has anyone dealt with or knows someone who has dealt with psychosis or something similar? I don't really understand how it'll work if (assuming I'm diagnosing correctly) it's discussed with a GP. What will the process involve?Is there a standard time off they'll give? What happens with their job? Will they have to go back to work after x amount of months no matter what? I just want to get out in front of it before appointments start being made. Got another account but wanted to keep it private. Not for me btw. A friend. Thanks for any info. Not sure if this would help or give any direction:https://www.webmd.com/schizophrenia/guide/what-is-psychosis 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Za4321 Posted May 27, 2019 Share Posted May 27, 2019 1 hour ago, AL-FFC said: Not sure if this would help or give any direction:https://www.webmd.com/schizophrenia/guide/what-is-psychosis Thanks. I had a read through it. Some of the parts mentioned in the diagnosis section are accurate with him, particularly the delusions. Convincing someone that their thoughts aren't real is difficult to say the least. I've tried and failed to get him to talk to a doctor before. Don't know what else to do. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AL-FFC Posted May 27, 2019 Share Posted May 27, 2019 5 minutes ago, Za4321 said: Thanks. I had a read through it. Some of the parts mentioned in the diagnosis section are accurate with him, particularly the delusions. Convincing someone that their thoughts aren't real is difficult to say the least. I've tried and failed to get him to talk to a doctor before. Don't know what else to do. NHS one gives a bit better guidance on the subject:https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/psychosis/ 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sophia Posted May 27, 2019 Share Posted May 27, 2019 Yvonne Murray, faced with challenges, is making progress. She is finding beauty in her life with those that love her. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Dons_1988 Posted May 28, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted May 28, 2019 Warning - emotional, happy clappy annoying c**t post coming up. Apologies in advance but it’s too embarrassing to say to actual people so I’m sharing with P&B instead. I ran the Edinburgh marathon on Sunday. I had a target time in mind and after about 17/18 miles I realised I wouldn’t make that time. I started to get angry and disappointed with myself, whilst my entire body ached. Then I started to think back to 8 months ago. A fat blob, off work because the depression had got too much. Spending my days at home playing fifa and shamefully sometimes drinking beer to take my mind off the unmitigated mess I’d made of my life. I couldn’t look in the mirror, I got angry at my wife if she tried to photo me as I didn’t want there to be any record of this fat c**t. It wasn’t just a vanity thing that I was fat, it was the physical embodiment of how broken I was as a person. I wanted to die. That coward would never have had the courage to actually take his own life, he’d probably have just drank himself to death. I felt like my wife was still here out of obligation and a duty of care rather than actually wanting to. And I suddenly realised that my marathon time didn’t matter a f**k. In the last 8 months I’ve lost the weight, new job, I have a better relationship with alcohol, food, my wife and I are back to being just happy to be together, I’ve even started saving money up. I’ve realised not only can I live with this vile voice in my head but I can excel with it. I was doing a marathon FFS. Anyway, sorry for the bore, but you’re all good c***s on this thread and for anyone suffering, your time to beat it like I have is coming. 41 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stellaboz Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 Respect to you sir. A full marathon is fucking tremendous no matter what. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sir Kevin Of Kilsyth Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 16 hours ago, Za4321 said: I know this thread is mainly about depression but has anyone dealt with or knows someone who has dealt with psychosis or something similar? I don't really understand how it'll work if (assuming I'm diagnosing correctly) it's discussed with a GP. What will the process involve?Is there a standard time off they'll give? What happens with their job? Will they have to go back to work after x amount of months no matter what? I just want to get out in front of it before appointments start being made. Got another account but wanted to keep it private. Not for me btw. A friend. Thanks for any info. I had it for a short while, mainly due to cocaine and speed use. And I'll tell you it was the fuckin scariest thing ever. When I was fucked I had developed a liking for listening to Irish rebel music. Then when I was coming down I used to hear the songs playing clear as day in my head as if they were on the radio. I'll never forget walking down Sauchiehall Street and all I could hear was Graffiti on the Wall blaring and it was coming from my head. I was asking people in pubs to turn the music off as well when there wasn't even any on. Honestly, ye can kinda laugh at how i got the symptoms, Up the ra 24/7 but it was mental. I never told the doctor as I'd probably have got sectioned. It went away after coming and going for several weeks. Awful thing. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JTS98 Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 2 hours ago, Dons_1988 said: Anyway, sorry for the bore, but you’re all good c***s on this thread and for anyone suffering, your time to beat it like I have is coming. Absolutely tremendous. Well done. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJ2 Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 Thanks. I had a read through it. Some of the parts mentioned in the diagnosis section are accurate with him, particularly the delusions. Convincing someone that their thoughts aren't real is difficult to say the least. I've tried and failed to get him to talk to a doctor before. Don't know what else to do.You can’t convince them. It’s real, to them at least. Never pretend you can hear/see them either. “I’m sorry, I can’t hear/see what you are but I can see you’re really distracted” or something along these lines. It’s best to try get them to sit down somewhere and ensure they can’t hurt themselves or become more worked up. I’ve experienced hallucinations before and it’s scary as f**k and really confusing. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oldbitterandgrumpy Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 2 hours ago, Dons_1988 said: Anyway, sorry for the bore, but you’re all good c***s on this thread and for anyone suffering, your time to beat it like I have is coming. Yeah, hats off to you for completing the marathon. I managed to get up to 5k on the Couch To 5k programme and it was torture, but the reward of completing it more than compensated. I just can't imagine extending that to a marathon though, so well done again. Incidentally, has this curbed your cynicism and and your general '30 going on 70' views on life? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Za4321 Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 (edited) 3 hours ago, Sir Kevin Of Kilsyth said: I had it for a short while, mainly due to cocaine and speed use. And I'll tell you it was the fuckin scariest thing ever. When I was fucked I had developed a liking for listening to Irish rebel music. Then when I was coming down I used to hear the songs playing clear as day in my head as if they were on the radio. I'll never forget walking down Sauchiehall Street and all I could hear was Graffiti on the Wall blaring and it was coming from my head. I was asking people in pubs to turn the music off as well when there wasn't even any on. Honestly, ye can kinda laugh at how i got the symptoms, Up the ra 24/7 but it was mental. I never told the doctor as I'd probably have got sectioned. It went away after coming and going for several weeks. Awful thing. Did you discuss it with family/friends? 2 hours ago, NJ2 said: You can’t convince them. It’s real, to them at least. Never pretend you can hear/see them either. “I’m sorry, I can’t hear/see what you are but I can see you’re really distracted” or something along these lines. It’s best to try get them to sit down somewhere and ensure they can’t hurt themselves or become more worked up. I’ve experienced hallucinations before and it’s scary as f**k and really confusing. It's not so much the hallucinations, more a lack of trust in anyone around him (including family). Thinking everyone is working against him, talking behind his back, wife is cheating etc. All made worse by alcohol, no hobbies and a stressful job. He has no interest in doing anything about those issues either. Thanks. Edited May 28, 2019 by Za4321 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJ2 Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 It's not so much the hallucinations, more a lack of trust in anyone around him (including family). Thinking everyone is working against him, talking behind his back, wife is cheating etc. All made worse by alcohol, no hobbies and a stressful job. He has no interest in doing anything about those issues either. Thanks.I think all you can do is suggest he speaks to professionals. I’ve experienced something quite similar, a guy I know was having similar issues - it was substance and stress related though so once he stopped the substances, he could address what he was stressing about and things came back together, and pretty quickly tbh. Hopefully your mate can get help and see that his nearest and dearest just want what’s best. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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