Well done shifting some weight and well done on the new job! Aye, you put some weight back on and didn’t get another job, but you lost more and do have a new job! Terrific stuff mate! What about you and your bird renting somewhere else together? Obviously once her lease ends etc. but you could get a place new to both and make it your home together for the time being. While doing that, save up and get deposit together. I obviously don’t know circumstances but consider it, have a look at the numbers and see where you go. Renting, I think, is shite (I’ve been doing it about 10 year now) but I prefer that to living to at home.