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7 minutes ago, 101 said:
Tbf you are your own worst enemy, you're posts are like a TV show with Plot A: the thread and Plot B: your workplace issues.
Stick the people you don't like on ignore if it really winds you up and if you feel that a low blow of "bringing up painful things" has gone too far report it too a mod, but I cant see them taking action in your case as it's about all you go on about
I did, nothing was done. Now I'm being accused of lying.
Absolute fucking c***s
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25 minutes ago, djchapsticks said:
I suppose that's as close to an apology @Sergeant Wilson is going to get for being wrongly accused of bullying and telling another poster to hang themselves.
That happened. You've added bullying to it but what I said happened did happen. It's there somewhere on this site or at least it was. I can't see why admin don't have a record of this I reported it. How is this so difficult to find?
Complete and utter double standards from posters here. Yes I reacted badly to the meghan thing but at least I can look at myself and admit that.
There's a constant vibe of harassing posters on here and loving stiring things up then sitting back and enjoying it even further by creating threads like heads gone, worst posters, bringing up painful things for their own enjoyment.
You could literally write down the top ten who go round the forum dotting and harassing folk. Imagine being that sad that you live for winding up others.
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36 minutes ago, parsforlife said:
His main demographic is raging Brit nats, Storming out on a black man whilst sticking up for the royals is porn to them, there’s no way they aren’t desperate to find out where he goes and follow him there.
He knows exactly what he’s doing. I hate to say it but he will probably get a larger following now and some will be radicalised through watching videos of his and others online. I fear that things may get more divided and extreme in years to come. Possibly due to how everything is online and algorithms are just feeding angry people what they want to read or watch. I’m angry, let’s go online and meet more angry people and rant about gammon stuff together. I don’t know what the solution is either, it’s going to end up with two very divided ways of thinking with no common ground or ideas constantly fighting each other. I’m not actually sure both sides can meet online they’re divided into groups. It’s a mess.
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All this shit has done has divided people into more and more groups and made them all more angry.
Rather than I’m a mad racist I think I was triggered at her claims of bullying and thought what’s she complaining about. People can react in different ways. Who knows perhaps she was bullied, maybe she was the bully. Maybe a bit of both.
Until all the facts are there then who can say, certainly the royal family have previous but that doesn’t make them guilty.I need to stop reacting to people who are obviously trying to wind me up. I think it’s a genuine thing, to want to prove yourself when you’ve been the victim of something and people make light of it or you see others getting favourable sympathetic treatment while you were ridiculed or made fun of.
This is also to do with me finally resolving the situation at work, I’m speaking to HR and others are starting to speak up. In the last week or so. Been hard not to talk about it but we finally had enough and reported racism. It’s really bad tbh and even today the main perpetrator is now playing the victim in front of a crowd while making light of it. If it gets brushed under the carpet then the guy who left is taking it to corporate. All of this has made me go a bit radio rental. It’s quite stressful. I’m not trying to look for any sympathy just understand that I’m going to get extremely triggered by bullying or racism accusations. Will probably get called out as a Walter Mitty here but I’m telling this 100% true and there’s worse shit behind it as well. This c**t is like Bernard manning x1000.
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10 hours ago, Mark Connolly said:
This sort of gallows humour is unacceptable.
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16 minutes ago, Sergeant Wilson said:
Here we go again!
Fifeism
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2 minutes ago, Fratelli said:
Find it hard to believe this isn't part of some co-ordinated stunt by Morgan and that he'll end up with a big gig somewhere else. Although he's nailed on to end up on one of the new gammon channels. He's a complete and utter c**t but quite a savvy c**t when it comes to enhancing his career prospects/publicity, not a chance he's leaving with his tail between his legs like the folk celebrating seem to think.
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Piers Morgan gtf
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Well if I posted a picture up and you responded underneath who was it aimed at?
Were you just saying that it looked like gallows but in a sarcastic way? That seems different to how I interpreted it.
Without finding it I guess it's hard to say, I was surprised by it and it seemed extra full on. I get that there's dark humour but again let me stress the point that this was used as an example of double standards rather than it actually causing me major stress or harm. If admin had contacted you then you could have explained it and solved the problem but as I said it seems like nothing was done.
If I do quote something or use something in the future then I will be sure to screengrab beforehand.
As you can see that I remembered a garage then found the same pic in my files so it obviously wasn't made up.
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10 minutes ago, Sergeant Wilson said:
And I've likened this to gallows in an exercise thread? I'll see what I can find.
Are you also attributing the other criticisms made of you specifically to me?
No, not at all. Just this and the narcissist thread.
I don't think this was in the fitness thread. Starting to think coronavirus.
The other thread was deleted by myself. I realise that it's intended as a joke but I uses it to show the extreme double standards online.
This was imo an extreme example and after reporting it I received zero feedback. You didn't quote me or mention my name but the post was directly under mine with that picture and my gut reaction was one of shock. I'm not really that offended by things but possibly due to taking about things on the depression thread I've assumed something much darker and devious than what it was. Even so regardless it was in poor taste and an example of the double standards I'm on about. People care but do they really when theres threads like heads gone, constant trolling and victim blaming changing default names to virginton etc. Its not exactly the end of the world but just examples of double standards that we are all guilty of.
I have no grudge or grievance with you because of it so I hope you understand why I used it as an example. It would have been better to find it first but I didn't think I would have needed to defend myself so much. Its already been denied that it happened, called all sorts of insults yet I was told to hang myself. Even as a joke that's unacceptable.
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10 minutes ago, Sergeant Wilson said:
You are sending very mixed signals then. On one hand it wasn't aimed at you and you're not that bothered.
On the other hand you've brought it up a while later and mentioned me (without @ ) singularly in a post with multiple slights against you.
I've not denied it, but I would like to see the post to establish context. I can't find it and the report can't be identified by mods without you being more specific. Even if it has been removed I'd expect that some following posts would have responded to it.
Can you give more detail?
I can't sorry just that it was around last summer.
I've found the attachment in my files from this site so that should help. I dont know how to tell the date from the attachment. Is this possible?
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I had a real search of the post by sarge. Its definitely been removed. I didn't get a reply from admin so there's no way of proving it.
He does seem to have a thing about joking around hanging people so I guess it was a distasteful attempt of humour. It's up to admin to explain how this works.
I'm not trying to paint the guy as a monster but just that heres another example.
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4 minutes ago, Stormzy said:
Is everyone that dislikes Meghan Markle right wing or doing so just because the papers say so?
His take is more bizarre than mine. That nobody can have an opinion different to his unless they've been warped by right wing propaganda.
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3 minutes ago, Bob Mahelp said:
Personally I can't think of any better way to give a GIRFUY to the royal family and UK tabloids than outing them as the lying, scumbag racists that they are in front of hundreds of millions.
Don't disagree. I've already said they're horrible racists but i still think she's playing it for her benefit rather than actually being genuinely traumatised.
It's a controversial take but hey ho don't care.
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2 minutes ago, Gaz said:
What the actual f**k?
So it's OK to say people can hang themselves as a joke?
Until admin or myself can find it I suggest you stfu
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11 minutes ago, DA Baracus said:
The absolute state of that opening line. Why are you unquestioningly, almost willingly, buying in to right wing tabloid pish?
Your language about her is very uncomfortable stuff. Calling bullshit on her claims because the Daily Mail doesn't like her is absolutely dreadful garbage and genuinely shameful stuff. 'Previous divorce'?! Have a fucking word with yourself. It isn't the 1950s. There are posters on here that are divorced. Are you calling them all liars and questioning their characters? Likewise folk who have fallen out with their families.
Once again you've questioned that she can dare to smile. Please detail the exact behaviours people who have been bullied and have felt suicidal must exhibit. Please provide a list of expressions and behaviours they must never again, ever, exhibit, seeing as we're back to the 'everyone reacts the exact same way' stuff.
I haven't read a newspaper for years. Just calling it as I see it. From personal experience if you were bullied like this then the last thing you want to do is relive it all on national TV infront of hundreds of millions.
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21 minutes ago, djchapsticks said:
But just yesterday you clearly said that the comment was aimed at you and even used it to back up the claims that you personally are being bullied by such comments.
That's why SW has correctly taken such umbrage and repeatedly asked you to provide evidence of this.
What the f**k mate?!
Admin should have a record of it maybe?
It happened and it was aimed at me, it certainly seemed that way. I can't find the post now.
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7 minutes ago, Wee Bully said:
I thought after his “there are too many black people on Match of the Day” line, D.A.F.C. couldn’t sink any lower.
I guess I was wrong. An absolute disgrace of a human being.You're quoting something I didn't say.
I said that it seems strange that the bbc are now employing more black people after the George floyd and blm issues. I even backed it up with their own policy which states that they are doing this. I never said at any time what they were doing is wrong and that tbh most are a massive improvement on the likes of billy dodds or Derek ferguson.
I get that you're trolling but I have to reply to this because it's a serious allegation
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1 minute ago, Day of the Lords said:
f**k's sakes
I'm still not 100% sure tbh.
It was a picture of this but it was beside a garage. I assumed it was in the fitness thread. When you do a goggle search it's there but when clicking on that link it isn't. I dont know why.
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1 minute ago, Gaz said:
I don't follow you around the forum, champ, so maybe if you're going to quote other posters then actually quote other posters rather than wording things in a way that make it look like you're saying them.
Fair enough.
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1 hour ago, Sergeant Wilson said:
Can you say when it was?
Roughly summer last year. I guess admin removed it.
I dont think your comment was aimed at me but it was out of order imo and that's all I said to admin. That it was a bit much. I'm sure you didn't intend it to read that way and I'm only using it to show the double standards in some posters behavior. I know you like to take the piss but this one was poorly judged. I dont hold any grudges about it.
It still continues, I'm constantly moaning but a hot lassie selling it to the news isn't because we hate the royal family or something. Also stop defending yourself that's not allowed.
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2 minutes ago, NotThePars said:
Because your take was that someone who was allegedly suicidal wouldn't be on television laughing and smiling which is a wildly dismissive and ignorant take and especially surprising coming from someone who's pretty open about their own mental health problems. Loads of us have known people who've been very outgoing and outwardly on top of the world and yet they've been crippled with depression and suicidal thoughts. It's a mental dismissive take that leads everyone to rightly question where that view comes from.
Ignoring how convenient the timed leaks of bullying were even if she was a bully that doesn't mean that she's not deserving of sympathy if she has been mistreated by her husband's family and it doesn't dismiss the fact that she's also clearly been targeted by the royals and the full might of their inbred aristocratic journo backers.
Tbh I think she’s manipulated Harry away from his family and planned this from before marriage. Will probably by divorced in a few years.
I really wouldn’t have thought that several royal aides and workers would suddenly be part of a major conspiracy to gang up on her. I really don’t like the royal family but I’m calling bullshit on this one. I don’t condone any treatment or deny that they’re racist or horrible but she’s manipulative and cunning and played him like a fiddle.
Something doesn’t sit right, dunno. Previous divorce, issues with her family, selling themselves to America. She’s trying to be the next Diana and Harry has bought it. I get that the media are on the royals side but I’ve not really got involved with it. Find it impossible that if she was really bullied to the point of chucking all that away she could sit there like that. It’s not ignorant it’s based on reality. Believe me reliving incidents is like getting punched in the stomach. You can’t just brush it off like that.
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3 hours ago, Gaz said:
You really are an absolutely despicable c**t.
Spent 90% of your life on here bitching and moaning about your work but as soon as it's someone else's mental health you're telling them to fucking hang themselves.
This is so much of a whoosh I don’t know where to start. I honestly can’t begin to tell you how much I despise bullying and people who have a go at mental health. All of the things i posted were things said to me on this forum.
I guess now I can add bully and racist to this as well. Speaking from personal experience I don’t believe Meghan at all, that’s just my personal opinion and I don’t see why I should be attacked over this and wound up and insulted. The post from SW existed but must have been removed from admin. I’m not all that bothered about it now but found it upsetting at the time. If you had spent any time in the depression thread then you would know how much I try to help others and have received help myself. You really are so far off the mark here, genuinely.If you look through this thread and others you will see that I’m constantly jabbed and trolled about my situation and can’t speak about it anymore. All I did was point out the hypocrisy. I really do think I’m wasting my time trying to explain myself here to someone who seems to have based a judgement on someone based on their football team. Coincidence that you and rugster both support Falkirk I guess.
What really triggered me was seeing the reaction to bullying when it’s not even clear if she was a bully herself. Like some sort of fashionable fad everyone is now an expert and suddenly absolved of any previous ridiculing of people being bullied. Probably the same people who wind up posters and make threads about heads gone. Can’t wait to jump on a bandwagon and tear people down while completely misunderstanding what was said.
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1 minute ago, djchapsticks said:
I mean this in the kindest way possible. Sometimes it's for the best to take a step back and give yourself a bit of time away, be that a few hours, days or whatever.
Reading through your posts this last few hours, you should give yourself a while away.
Oh aye, stop defending yourself I dont like it.
I dont like it so much I'll create a thread about heads gone.
Kindly stop standing up for yourself. Nah its ok
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Royal Family Crisis
in The General Nonsense Forum
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This is going to be the last post or entry I put on here for a long time. Maybe ever.
First of all I want to make a genuine apology to Sargeant Wilson. Yes you made a daft joke and yes I completely misread it as malicious or nasty.
Im sorry about this and please don’t think about changing your style or wit because of this. It was out of order accusing you and again I’m sorry.
Secondly my behaviour on some threads has been reactionary and daft at times. I’ve made some completely out of character statements and arguments that are misplaced.
Bascially, not trying to justify anything here, I was bullied at school somewhat. Not in a traditional sense but a group of friends completely turned on me and assaulted me out of the blue. I don’t know how to explain it but since then I’ve had trust issues. I pretty much isolated myself to one or two friends then one died and lost touch with the other. I did well work wise until my last job where I was picked on by one boss. This is when I joined the forum as another form of DAFC name. I jumped ship into another workplace that was completely wrong and toxic but again rather than confront the issue I bagged up all the pain and occasionally lashed out. I feel that most of my posts and threads are in good humour but have to stop going on and on about work and bullies and narcissists or whatever injustice that triggers my feelings about work.
Need to step away from this and concentrate on small steps on making my life better and improving myself. Blaming good people for other bad people is a shitty thing and I feel like I’ve lost my identity. I’m honestly not some paranoid nutter but I guess it seems that way. Professional help is needed to help me get over the things I mentioned not constant rage. Thankfully a few people are speaking out now at work and that’s a relief.
Not sure if this is better suited to the depression forum so sorry if it’s off topic. I wanted sarge to see it.
Hope that this explains things a little and that this doesn’t seem like attention seeking or tear stained. I’m ok and feel much better for saying this.
On topic I’m sure that the truth will come out and perhaps make changes in the royal family. One thing I have learned is that you need crystal clear evidence otherwise you won’t be believed. There is no defence for me calling her attention seeking, again it was reactionary and jealous because someone being bullied was believed. No excuse.
Have a good weekend and hopefully we will all be back moaning about football some time in the future.