Reading through the last few pages, fucking Hell.
The forum is very loosely moderated, we generally trust people to mind their own behaviour.
I don't really give too much of a toss if people want to engage in dotting wars and both parties are at it. Don't really see the point myself, but each to their own.
However, when people have explicitly said that being singled out upsets them, it seems that it would be sensible to stop. After all, I don't think people on here really want to make other posters' lives worse, do they?
I'm not singling anyone out or taking sides, but please can posters consider their behaviour, even more so given the current global situation with lots of people feeling isolated.
So, basically, tl;dr. Just don't be dicks to each other unless you're sure the recipient doesn't care.
And... I think this thread has run its course.