The French lost 50,000 civilians during the allied bombing of Normandy. Thankfully they don't hold a grudge and got wired in to kick out the Nazis.
As for a two state solution between Israel and the arabs. Fine, but difficult when one of the sides refuses to recognise Israel as a state. They never have done, hence the attempt in 1948 to obliterate it a day after it was created. If they had recognised Israel at the time then there would have been a two state solution from the off and somewhere for the displaced arabs to go instead of being kicked from pillar to post and not being allowed to settle in other arab lands. They have attempted to obliterate Israel three times and failed in each attempt. Gaza gets more aid per head than virtually any other part of the planet, they spend it on rockets and building tunnels. When Gaza was handed over to their control the first thing they did was to elect Hamas idiots where they then set about any dissenters, murdering them. They havent had an election since so we probably wont get to find out whether the punterdom are still happy with their choice. They are all pawns in a bigger game unfortunately for them.
But yes, Israel. Terrible people.