Cafetiere, small amount of cold milk and usually the (imo) genuinely excellent Lavazza Red. We do drink other craft/local type stuff but I find it hit or miss and expensive. The other go to is Lidl French Blend which is astoundingly cheap and really, really good.
If I get offered an instant coffee I generally assume I have mortally offended the person and leave in a hurry. I'd rather drink nothing.