I think if you read these posts in order,it gives you,your answer.
Why did you get so upset at my original statement?
Is it because you see yourself as one of the posters I was making reference to?
I think it's obvious for all to see that you did,otherwise,you wouldnt have biten so quickly.
Its also remarkable and to be honest,quite hilarious that you assume, "smart people generally cultivate relationships, lasting relationships- both platonic and romantic.
Why have you suddenly turned into Clare Rayner?
Rightly or wrongly you were actually one of the posters I was thinking about when I made that remark and you instantly start stamping your feet about it.
Edit to add. My opinion is obviously unpopular with you,which is what the threads about,so proves my point twice I feel